Tim roth's character

Not too good at actores and real names but a pivitol moment for my self in the movie PF was

when a man called a big thick woman garcon…it makes adifference to me to be recoginzed for both sides of our duality yin yang male female or however you express it and I wonder exactly why the waitress was sounding insulted… personally one day in school here in santa cruz with short heair on my scalp a professoraa called me the gentlman in green in the back… i found no insult other than the way she then wanted so much to make an insulting example out of myself by saying how sorry for being a hermaphrodite to her standards of society is uncomprehensive… my friend Jonah felt like when i told the bicth to suck my dick that welll off the topic and who cares sorry