So, guys and gals, what are you attracted to in a partner? What floats your boat?
As weird (and FRUSTRATING) as it is, I am rarely attracted to anyone. I could count on my hands the number of people in my life I’ve been attracted too. But, when I am, I’m typically attracted to dark short straight or curly hair, light skin, brown eyes with a slim frame and SOME (but not to much, I don’t like bulkiness) muscle definition, and close to my height but a bit taller. I also like guys who are a few years older (I’m 21), and have filled out into “men”. Most of the celebs who I think are smokin’ hot are 35 plus, but that doesn’t really translate into everyday life.
Of course, I do often find myself attracted to men who do not fit the description I just laid out at all. Typically though, that’s what I am attracted too. And obviously I recognize attractiveness when I see it, people who do not fit into what I find it attractive at all. However, I’m not attracted to them, but it is obvious they are good looking. Basically, like how I know my brothers are very handsome.
Anyways, in a woman, I find a lot of things attractive. I like brown and black hair more then blonde or red, and I like all skin tones on a women, as long as she has healthy skin. I prefer long curly or wavy hair as well, but many girls have short hair and look incredible with it! I’m also not a big fan of large breasts unless it’s proportionate to the rest of her body. I like proportion in a women. However, I am straight, but I am a appreciator of female beauty (like men should be about other men, really).
Anyway, what do you guys prefer?
Gentlemen prefer.....?
Dark short hair (although I’m not against long hair either) and cute looks. What many guys consider sexy I usually consider slutty, and that’s a big turn off. Real eroticism is something natural, and if you try to impress me with some porn magazine poses and revealing clothing it ain’t gonna work. Size of breasts is not an issue, but I’d say I generally prefer smaller breasts.
Shaved pussy, pinkish nipples or brown, whatever…the Hazard loves 'em all. Just no fat chicks or super skinny.
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if you are female, cute and laugh about my jokes, that´s all i need.
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What if she dosen’t like you…
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What many guys consider sexy I usually consider slutty, and that’s a big turn off. Real eroticism is something natural, and if you try to impress me with some porn magazine poses and revealing clothing it ain’t gonna work. Size of breasts is not an issue, but I’d say I generally prefer smaller breasts.
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I agree 100%. I find porn either tends to look cheesy, or just, well, gross and off-putting.
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Shaved pussy, pinkish nipples or brown, whatever…the Hazard loves 'em all. Just no fat chicks or super skinny.
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Hahahahah ;D
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What if she dosen’t like you…
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then i´ll move on?? that wasn´t the question.
Anyone who looks kinda like Petra Nemcova, Mary Elizabeth Winstead or Julia Louise Dreyfus (Elaine Marie Benes) Dark long hair, nice hips, nice legs, butt and a face that screams cuteness.
I like tall black chicks like Sydney Tamiia Poitier or spanish chicks like Salma Hayek and Eva Longoria.
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Dark short hair (although I’m not against long hair either) and cute looks. What many guys consider sexy I usually consider slutty, and that’s a big turn off. Real eroticism is something natural, and if you try to impress me with some porn magazine poses and revealing clothing it ain’t gonna work.
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Same here. Maybe it’s my Japan obsession that’s shaped my view, but I go for the “cute” look. I tend to like brunettes, but she’s just got to be cute, funny and like me. If you asked me like a couple of years ago, I’d say something like big breasts. But whilst I like looking at breasts, I honestly couldn’t give a shit about it. When I really really like a girl, sex tends to be the last thing on my mind for a while. Sex should come later. Relationships built on a foundation of sex don’t really last in my opinion.
I dont think they are meant to last… im unconvinced that any good does… i dont like girls who dont look real… like super models, actresses ect… i like more subtle and under appreciated quality’s in the body that are sadly rare… as for the personal quality’s well i dont know because i havnt yet found anything that i adore in a person like that… it makes me think that people are sad creatures that cant understand themselves let alone each other… though part of me wants personal quality’s in a girl that are… absolute devotion… obsession… an perhaps a willingness to call me the master when im in this kind of state of mind…
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though part of me wants personal quality’s in a girl that are… absolute devotion… obsession… an perhaps a willingness to call me the master when im in this kind of state of mind…
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Really ? Hum, maybe you’d be bored soon if she was only like that… I guess you need to share stuff in a relation, no devotion all the time.
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I dont think they are meant to last… im unconvinced that any good does… i dont like girls who dont look real… like super models, actresses ect… i like more subtle and under appreciated quality’s in the body that are sadly rare… as for the personal quality’s well i dont know because i havnt yet found anything that i adore in a person like that… it makes me think that people are sad creatures that cant understand themselves let alone each other… though part of me wants personal quality’s in a girl that are… absolute devotion… obsession… an perhaps a willingness to call me the master when im in this kind of state of mind…
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Well, interestingly, I’m not the kind of person who goes on about inner beauty. I still talk in terms of outer beauty, but like you said, I just like real girls. I find myself attracted to cute girls that project a happy feeling. Not an annoying happy feeling though. I am personally quite pessimistic, cynical and I don’t like to smile unless there’s a tangible reason. So, it’s about compatibility.
Plus, I should add, nothing turns me off more than girls who have a overpowering moral conscience.
Big Juggs, Round Ass, Pretty Face…
I think that is the title of a porn movie somewhere out there ;D
By Lou Barlow
My soul mate is a special girl
A girl that’s just like me
She’ll share tremendous oral sex
And try everything she sees
She won’t be insane or hung-up
Like most other girls
I’ll worship her until it hurts
‘Cuz she’s on top of my world
Ewwwww, I’m a sad man
I can’t ignore what life beholds for me
And I’ll probably have to have sex with a lot of girls
Before my soul mate reveals herself to me
You are sweet diversion as I stomp my darker way
Don’t let your heart get out of hand
I’ll step on it someday
Maybe it’s too sad to mention
Maybe I am gay
A moment or two may shine and sure to quickly fade away
Ewwwww, it’s a sad life
Sometimes little sweet girls get left behind
But baby, baby, baby it’s a man’s life
And I gotta tear up everything I find